Wednesday, September 24, 2008
A tux, a cake, and Adelaide
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
More baby pics
Monday, September 08, 2008
Adelaide's Debut
Wendy and Adelaide are doing well and we are now enjoying our first afternoon at home.
She is eating well and taking care of her "other" baby business in good fashion. Hopefully she will adjust to being at home and make her mother's life easy for the first few weeks.
I guess we will need a new name for the blog? Maybe not.
Thursday, September 04, 2008
And waiting . . .
We've missed Jerry's birthday, Grandma Cox's birthday, Sue's birthday, and Big Jerry's birthday. And today is Andrea's birthday.
We sure do have a lot of birthdays around this time of the year . . .
Wei Wei was asking me where the baby was going to come out and how. As I stammered for an appropriate answer, Po Po told him that the baby was going to come out in the hospital, neatly side-stepping the question. She's quick.
Sunday, August 31, 2008
Still waiting . . .
We were at Ali's tonight (Xiao Yi) to help with programs and favors for the wedding. It was quite the scene: everyone was there: Gong Gong and Po Po, Audrey, Badri and the twins, and us. It took several of us just to entertain the kids. Thank goodness we have a big family. Jerry got the knack pretty quickly of tying the knots. Mom and I gave up. She watched the kids and I worked on the favors. I'm better with menial labor, not the stuff that requires dexterity.
We planted some sunflowers earlier this summer and they turned out to be big! Here's a photo of Wei Wei (with Zoe, the neighbor's dog making an appearance too).
Monday, August 25, 2008
A tux and a party
And then went to Kai's 4th birthday party on Sunday. I had a great time playing with him. I think my favorite was the moon walk. Here I am with Ba Ba learning to somersault. I don't think I'm going to be a serious contender for the 2016 Olympics just yet.
Bouncing with James (blonde) and Kai (red).
Friday, August 22, 2008
Cutie Pies!
Friday, August 15, 2008
A busy few weeks
- Spent a Saturday morning at the beach with my buds Kai, Katarina, and Ethan
- Had the Lim boys and Sienna come over for a barbecue. I really do need to spend at least a weekend with the Lim boys to toughen me up. Or spend a weekend at a boot camp. Or, spend a weekend at a boot camp to train me for spending a weekend with the Lim boys.
- I'm pooping in the potty now. You should see how excited Ma Ma and Ba Ba get over that.
- Kaixiang came for a visit -- I loved hanging out with him
- Tried to get a photo at Sears of all four cousins. Ma Ma said she has a new appreciation for people who work with kids or animls because in 45-minute session, we managed to get only four photos of all four of us.
- Celebrated Gong Gong and Po Po's 40th anniversary with a surprise party
- Ma Ma and Ba Ba caught colds -- luckily I am okay (for now)
- Ma Ma and Ba Ba have been watching a whooooooooole lotta Olympics
- Ma Ma has about 3-4 weeks left until her due date (September 7), but remember, I was ten days early. This means I could be getting a new baby brother or sister the last week of August, which isn't that far away. Aaaaaaack!
Sunday, July 27, 2008
Garrick and Ethan 4-wheelin'
Sunday, July 20, 2008
His favorite quotes . . . not ours
- "I don't like [ma ma, ba ba, insert whoever]."
- "Why, ma ma?"
- "Why, ba ba?"
- "Can you buy me a toy?"
- "I don't want to eat. My stomach hurts."
- "I don't want to eat. I'm tired."
- "I don't want to eat. I don't like this."
- "I won't play with you."
- "I don't like anyone. I only like Ethan."
- [Sung, not spoken:] "I like to move it, move it . . . I like to move it, move it . . ."
- "I won! I won! Oh, yeah . . . oh, yeah . . . oh, yeah . . . slow motion." [Accompanied by gleefully jumping up and down. What a graceful winner.]
Friday, July 18, 2008
Saturday, July 05, 2008
Happy 4th of July!
Here's a photo from last week when the weather was better. Check the pecs . . . KA-POW!
Monday, June 30, 2008
Tooth stress
Wei Wei ran straight into the couch doing that very thing. The lip looked okay, but the gum above the tooth was bleeding. We put ice on it, of course, but the worst is running through our heads: he knocked the tooth loose, the tooth is going to turn grey and fall out, he's going to have a space, which is going to mess up the rest of the teeth and when his adult teeth come in he's going to have Sponge Bob Squarepants teeth.
Jerry took him to our dentist and the tooth still seems solidly rooted, but unfortunately tooth damage might not show up for several weeks. So we wait and see. And worry . . . sigh.
Sunday, June 29, 2008
Underwear update and other news
Jerry tried to take him last week to run their first 5k race together. The weather was a little dicey, but Jerry took him anyway. They registered and were waiting around for the start, but then there was distant thunder and lightening, so they skipped it. I had headed over to Audrey's to help Ali with her wedding invitations. I get a call from Wei Wei, who is crying because he's upset and wants to be with me. So naturally I drive home, only to find out that it wasn't necessarily me that he wanted to be with -- he was upset because he wanted to go to Audrey's too. And here I thought I was the center of his universe. Apparently he missed Xiao Yi and Wei Yi. Luckily, he got his fix this weekend.
Busy weekend: Jerry and I were in NYC for dinner on Friday night, then over to Mona and Piyush's house for a BBQ yesterday, then family over today. We had the twins and Wei Wei in a blow-up pirate pool for a bit this afternoon -- that was cute.
Rhetorical question: why is it that it's always the favorite toy/book/item that you can never keep track of or find? We've been tearing the house apart looking for King (of Cars movie fame). Last week it was the "Go Diego" book.
Saturday, June 21, 2008
Weedville 2008
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Potty success!
Many of you know the various cajoling and bribing we've offered, to no avail. But somehow, at Po Po's he needed no incentive and literally just started peeing in the potty on a regular basis (pooping is another story, but we'll take what we can get).
Woohoo! My fear that he was going to be 12 years old and still wearing diapers may not be realized after all!!!!
Sunday, June 08, 2008
Summer!
Saturday, June 07, 2008
Siggy's spa day and Wei Wei's debut
This weekend was the end of Chinese school. All of the classes performed and this was Wei Wei's big stage debut. He almost debuted early. When I told him it was time to line up, he scrambled right up on the stage and stood next to some students, except it wasn't his class. I had to go up and get him, but I give him points for enthusiasm.
Sunday, May 25, 2008
Friday, May 23, 2008
Our budding photographer
Here are a few from the last month:
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Giants Draft Day 5k
The runners -- fresh before the big start
If you look REALLY closely, you can see Andrea and Jerry.
Wei Wei and I hanging out in the parking lot.
The happy racers at the end.
Saturday, April 26, 2008
Pics from Wongville
Thursday, April 24, 2008
Wong-ville
The four kids are adorable together, but you can tell what a handful they will all be in a few years. We got some great pics and will post some soon. Highlights of the trip include:
- Hearing Nathan and Kyle giggle (which they do a lot)
- Watching them eat -- unlike their cousins, they can sure pack it away
- Hearing Kaixiang learn how to say "Wei We" -- we unfortunately weren't able to get him to perform for Jerry
- Seeing Kaixiang bust out his dance moves. He's got some good ones.
- Watching all four kids in the pool. And noticing how darn white Wei Wei is. Wonder where he gets that from.
Wei Wei continues to want to assert his independence. Jerry was trying to explain the concept of "bossy" to him because that's what he's been.
Had my 20-week ultrasound last week. Didn't find out the gender. We took Wei Wei and he wanted to know why it was so dark in my stomach.
Friday, April 11, 2008
Seriously, what did we do before the internet?
Wednesday, April 09, 2008
Dentist -- Take II
We decided to get a second opinion and went to see a new dentist today (thanks to Nancy for the referral!). This visit was MUCH better. Poor Wei Wei was so traumatized from the first visit that it was dicey at first, but the dentist had "Cars" on. Smart dentist. Also plenty of time for Wei Wei to warm up. Smart dentist. Also no poking, just looking. Smart dentist. It was miraculously a good experience. No tears from our little delicate lotus flower.
This doctor recommended taking baby steps, so we're going back in a few weeks for another look, maybe a cleaning, and definitely more tv.
I LOVE this new dentist (and not because he's a dreamboat either).
Our new favorite dentist---
Sunday, April 06, 2008
Toddler logic
True, enough.
In unrelated news, I'm 18 weeks along and livin' large. Recent cravings include: root beer, root beer floats, grapes, oranges, frozen pizza, and cheese subs.
We went to Auntie Andrea's and Uncle Loi's house yesterday. We think Wei Wei would do well spending a weekend with them. It would toughen him up for sure. Wei Wei loved playing with all the boys. And their toys. You'd think that kid never saw a toy before in his life.
Unrelated photos: here's Wei Wei enjoying some vanilla wafers (another pregnancy impulse purchase -- never send a hungry pregnant woman shopping . . . .) .
Saturday, March 29, 2008
Our Big Day...and some photos

He has also been eating an amazing amount of food...real food. Nothing ended in nugget or had "Mc" in front of it. We are very happy with that. He might actually make the growth chart the next time we take him to the doctor.
Last, but not least, check out the time I'm writing this post: 8:30pm, baby! That's right--Wei Wei is already in bed. Saturday night, take out, college b-ball , adult beverages (for the non-pregnant only), and Wendy...it doesn't get any better.
Oh, the sun was out today, so even though it was chilly, we went to the park for a bit too.
Friday, March 28, 2008
Pooping in the potty! (And other news)
We know that millions of other kids have done it (and do it on a regular basis), but we've been making some significant progress with the potty. Wei Wei's pooped in the potty the last three times! Woohoo!!! We're so proud. We have a quite the routine going: Mark the calendar with "p," put a sticker on the chart (and check to see if you get a poopie present), and pick out the two gummy bears. Our secret fears that he'll be wearing a diaper in high school may actually not come true.
In other news, we're expecting #2 (actually, to clarify, I am expecting #2). We've been late in getting the word out -- between the nausea and tiredness in the first 12 weeks and my ravenous appetite since then, we haven't had much time. I tell Jerry I feel like an animal in the wild: all of my waking hours are spent hunting/gathering/foraging for food. Hey -- I'm eating for 1 1/2 right now.
(And for the record, I'm 17 weeks along.)
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Asserting my independence
In happier news, Er Yi and Kaixiang came to visit last week. We had a great time with them. Ma ma and I spent the night at Po Po and Gong Gong's house. I got to do whatever I wanted there because Po Po and Gong Gong had my back. That was great.
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
Still obsessed, I see . . .
Boy: I like to read books.
Girl: I like to dance.
Girl: I like to sing.
Wei Wei: I like to watch television.
Sunday, February 10, 2008
Wei Wei's Three!
It's been a hectic week. We celebrated the Chinese New Year and my birthday all at once (my birthday was actually on the same day as the new year this year). What this translates to is lots of presents, lots of food, and lots of other food that I don't normally get to eat (reference photos above). It's good to be the king. Mom brought in cupcakes and red envelopes for my friends at daycare. I "helped" decorate the cupcakes with sprinkles and Cheerios. I love frosting, for sure.
The best birthday greeting I got was from my friends Justine and Vasco -- check it out here: http://i173.photobucket.com/player.swf?file=http://vid173.photobucket.com/albums/w47/ivannamike/MVI_0497.flv
Gong Gong, Po Po, and Xiao Yi came over to have dinner with me on Thursday. I managed to bamboozle the plans and hijacked Dad to go home with me from the restaurant (hey -- a three-year old's got to poop in private, you know).
I'm looking forward to three and I'm ready for the challenges ahead of me. For one, this business about mom and dad setting all the rules is going to go down like a house of cards. This place needs a new sheriff. I should be able to eat what I want when I want it. I should be able to sleep when I want. And I should be able to get new toys whenever I want. I've got some ideas for how to change this place and I'm not going to let a lack of income or transportation stop me. Stay tuned!
Saturday, February 02, 2008
Haircut trauma
Perhaps he took issue with the barber (we basically go to the same guy, but he kept telling us he wanted to go to another barber).
Perhaps it's that he's almost three years old and maturing into a full brat.
Whatever the case, this trip was the worst -- it took both of us to hold him down. Lots of screaming and crying and yelling.
Sunday, January 27, 2008
Chinese School
We checked out two classes: a parent/toddler class and a pre-school class. He's too advanced for the parent/toddler class (mostly for non-home-speakers) and was the star of the class. The other kid couldn't get a word in edgewise. Wei Wei had such a good time that he hugged the teacher good-bye. That was cute.
The other class was more structured (and longer -- two hours, versus 40 min). He would be the youngest one, but the parents are also able to stay, so the bonus there is that Jerry would be able to improve his skills too. So we think we're going to sign him up for the pre-k class and see how that goes.
Our baby, going to Chinese school. Sniff.
Wednesday, January 16, 2008
Still in the spirit.
Saturday, December 29, 2007
A whirlwind holiday
- Being sick.
- Visiting with Judy, P'ng, and Kaixiang. Having four kids around has put a new slant on our family gatherings. We take comfort in the fact that we'll be able to have a nice, quiet sit-down dinner as an extended family in about fifteen years.
- Going to Talan and Tyler's birthday party. Wei Wei couldn't wait to tell Po Po that he got to see a magician, pet a bird, and got a balloon twisted to look like Elmo.
- Celebrating Christmas. We have no idea where we're going to put all of Wei Wei's new toys. I have a feeling I know the solution: his stuff will continue to take over the house. He loves all of his gifts, but has been spending extra time with the digital camera (he's unfortunately inherited our (lack of an) artistic eye, judging by his photos), Hess truck with motorcycles, crane with power tools, and race track (Jerry had to number the track pieces to be able to put it together again -- apparently we're not smarter than a five year-old).
Monday, December 24, 2007
Complete Wong Throng
The only healthy ones have been Jerry and Mom. My theory is that they are too ornery to get sick.
Still, it's been a great time, although it feels a bit more hectic than usual and a lot more logistics to figure out. We were all together this afternoon and it seemed to be mass chaos . . . although maybe it was the sheer quantity of food and the food stupor we were all in.
We should have some good photos and will post some soon . . . hopefully before Memorial Day (ha-ha-ha).
Thursday, December 13, 2007
Raising a 16-year old daughter
You really only have to see the first 30 seconds to get the idea.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WUJOY7y_8QQ
Sunday, December 09, 2007
A Christmas Greeting
Thursday, December 06, 2007
Too much time on our hands
1) ate 3/4 of a bag of Smartfood.
2) ate 2 pieces of banana bread (homemade)
3) watched an episode of Project Runway
4) talked to various Wongs on the phone
5) ate a bowl of ice cream
6) surfed the web for great things like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_3Utmj4RPU&feature=related
8) played Snood
9) updated the blog
Tuesday, December 04, 2007
At least he's wearing it
And we think he's been secretly reading Justine and Vasco's blog, as he's been showing some pretty impressive 'tude lately. Everything seems to be a battle. Jerry and I think we should come up with some sort of scoring system to rank the tantrums and "compete" with the twins and others in a Tantrum Tournament (we could do single-round elimination or a round-robin format).
Sunday, December 02, 2007
False glimmer of hope
After he peed in the potty this morning, out of the blue, he said that he wanted to wear underwear.
Excuse me?
Was this it?
Was this the start?
Nope, only a false alarm. He wore underwear for a total of three minutes (no exaggeration), then wanted a diaper again.
Oh, well.

